Loving Lasting Relationships

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Asian Secrets Reveal Why Perceptual Differences Can Make Or Break Your Relationship

From: Love Coach, Kloudiia T
Date:

Dear Love Seekers and Friend of Love

For the longest time, people have taught "seduction" or "quick and easy" ways to get into a relationship. Well, I'm laughing myself silly now.

OF COURSE it's easy to get into a relationship. But wait until you hear all the cries of agony that I receive ALMOST EVERY DAY:

Here's what some people have asked me as a love coach and dating specialist.

"...he expects me to change for him... what do I do?"

"... she obviously loves me but she's been hurt before... how do I convince her?"

"... we've been together, now he takes me for granted!"

"She left me and I want her back... but I don't want to be clingy!"

"I like her but she doesn't seem to respond to me..."

"...he's just so possessive, I need my space but I don't want him to think I hate him"

"... I'm dating a younger man, and I just don't know how to handle it"

"I'm on my first date... and I'm a nervous wreck!"

For many of you, these questions will be very familiar. You probably have asked these questions before. You probably haven't found the right answers to them, because you never thought that an education in relationships would be necessary.

You know very well that a failure to learn about how relationships work will increase chances of breakup, divorce or argument in your relationship. You might end up feeling stressed, hurt and then completely demoralized.

But the truth is... nobody really wants to be alone. Can you see yourself:

moping at home, in front of the TV with nobody to spend your days with?
always keeping things to yourself and finding out that you're divorced from intimate and loving contact with your soul mate?
not having the courage to develop a relationship that could be the happiest in your life?
having superficial relationships and 'one-night-stands' that can never really fill that space that has been left empty for so long?
being accused of being insensitive, possessive or disinterested by your significant other?

“We never grew up being educated in dating and relationships… and perhaps we ought to get certified in relationships. This book lends a holistic view of love and relationships, not a lop-sided approach to dating alone. Kloudiia writes sincerely and celebrates the reality of human relationships, and how the often obscure and mistakenly untouchable concept of “everlasting love” is really a series of skills and behaviors. They are learnable, and I’d encourage anyone who wants the upper hand in relationships skills to learn from someone who not only writes about them in a down-to-earth fashion, but also the same person who practices what she preaches!”

Stuart Tan
Licensed NLP Trainer And Business Coach,

www.Stuart-Tan.com

But It's Not Me, Kloudiia!

For heaven's sake, stop passing the buck! Everyone likes to blame someone else for things gone wrong, or problems that have arisen. Common characteristics that I've seen in relationships have become too obvious for me, and I wanted to break the mould by creating a reference guide that everyone in a relationship can benefit from.

The Three Biggest Myths About Relationships... And The Special Ingredient That Turns Them On Their Heads

A lot of people who start out in relationships do not even know the fundamentals in relationship building. So you thought it was meet, date, kiss, get married and happily ever after? Think again!

Myth #1 - Once We're In The Relationship, It's A Done Deal!

I beg your pardon? It may be all fairytale land for you, but the relationship you are in depends strictly on how you treat it. There are breakups and divorces every single day. Unfortunately, people who are in a relationship hardly think about the future. They are in the moment, and that creates too much comfort in the feeling rather than in the process. You see, most failed relationships end up bad because couples don't know how to communicate with each other, get distanced, and complain that the "feeling" isn't there anymore. I'm sorry - but if you want a relationship based purely on "feeling" alone, you are going to end up with a very, very sorry series of relationships.

Myth #2 - Feelings Won't Change!

Precisely. Self-delusion is another way to take yourself to the next level of poor relationships, but I'll save that for another day! Feelings change constantly. They are affected by highs and lows. Heck, even a caffeine infusion could cause a high. Is your relationship IQ so unrefined that you are going to allow the love of your life to be compared with a cup of coffee??

Feelings change, but basic, fundamental principles of friendship and intimacy do not. All it takes is for you to be open about what you need to do and how you need to do it. The rest of it is about making sure that your emotions are communicated, and that you are level-headed enough to be able to make the interaction with your loved one good enough such that you both grow deeper in love than before.

Myth #3 - I'll Never Take My Partner For Granted!

Once again, the myth created from the fairytales like Cinderella and Snow White. You never see what actually happens when the Prince rides out with them into the sunset. Why? Because it's a fairly tale! It's not reality!

Taking each other for granted happens - and sometimes when you least expect it. But, you need to know how to get back on track. If you're missing the fine methods of communicating with your partner, you're not growing. Sometimes, you may have discovered that what you say is not heard. Or, you might realize that what you do is not appreciated. Why?

Read on...

Do You Really Know What "Love" Means?

“If you want to understand the opposite sex, improve the relationship you are in and create a happier and fulfilling life with your mate, Kloudiia offers valuable insight into overcoming common relationship problems while building a deep and committed relationship. She gives the reader entrée into the private world of working with couple’s common concerns, ups and downs, disappointments, frustrations, misunderstanding in communication and their hopes and dreams while providing her 69 little secrets to working their way to a healthier relationship. You can not only save your relationship with this valuable information but you can avoid the typical danger spots before they arise creating a long lasting deep love and even rekindle a wonderful romance. I think Kloudiia offers a fresh and optimistic perspective about love and relationships that should not be overlooked.”

Lisa Clampitt, CSW,
Co-founder of the Matchmaking Institute, USA

What do you do if your partner's mind is hidden from you? Well, most of us will either ignore it, or assume what we want to assume. The truth is that the approach to communication is extremely important, and you should learn what to communicate.

Frustrated With These Problems Too?

Do you:

	Get frustrated to understand your partner?
	End up in arguments or disagreements that you have no idea why they got started in the first place?
	Yearn for a way to have a blossoming relationship without the fear of losing your loved one’s affections?
	Feel defeated and disappointed that you are always attracting the wrong person, or not attracting anyone because you are still clueless on what type of person you are looking for?
	Long to discover if "everlasting love" truly exists?
	Start losing hope as you still can't figure out why your past relationships couldn't get past the honeymoon period?

The fact that you're here also means one thing - that you have a wish that's unfulfilled.

Tell Me How I Can Have A Satisfying And Long-Term Relationship!

A happy, loving, fulfilling and lasting relationship is what you have desired for a very long time, am I right to say that? I know I am. Because this is also what I have wanted in my life, ever since I started to know what is this enigmatic thing call "love"!

Let The 69 Love Notes demystify this for you. Or rather, show you what is the way to your partner's heart, and stay there for as long as you like.

Haven't These Questions Crossed Your Mind Before?

If you are a gal:

why did he make those decisions without me?
didn't he realize the earrings I just got?
why doesn't he want me around his friends?
why doesn't he listen to my feelings?
why is he always quiet when something goes wrong?
why does he lose his temper?
can't he tell that I'm unhappy?
why does he work so hard and not care about me?

If you are a guy:

why does she think that things are wrong when it seems fine to me?
why does she always want to "talk"?
why can't she see that my work is important and has nothing to do with our relationship?
why does she keep complaining about the same thing over and over?
why must she pick on my habits?
why can't she tell that I need to be alone?
why is she always feeling as if I don't love her when I actually do?

If you've had these questions and want to create the changes you need to the relationship you have, then get yourself a starting education in relationships.

Introducing The 69 Love Notes!

In “The 69 Love Notes - Secrets To A Loving And Lasting Relationship” I show you interesting insights from real life day to day events that happen in couples’ lives. Putting them across in a unique mix of East and West - that to give you new perspectives and approaches to get your relationship sizzle again!

It's a first with such Asian flavor - you don't get this anywhere else!

As a Licensed Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Practitioner, I tap on my coaching experience as I expound on those frustrating problems that couples face and give realistic and practical suggestions to not only overcome those challenges, but also to get more connected with each other.

Wonder why it is that successful couples practice these secrets? You too, could be enjoying the most romantic, long-lasting relationship – by reading the secrets inside this book that can show you:

	SECRET # 7: The one communication secret that all relationship gurus never tell you about
	SECRET #12: The missing secret that has held together relationship for decades
	SECRET #22: The simplest approach that has turned distance into intimacy
	SECRET #51: Your psychological weapon against waning feelings
	SECRET #63: The poison of relationships that has been the cause of millions of arguments – and knowing this could stop it forever
	... And much, much more!

Truthfully, after reading this book, you'll get to a stage where:

	You'll realize why your relationships have not worked out - and what to do with it
	You can find areas for improvement and jointly succeed in your relationship together
	You can understand how your partner feels and respond effectively
	Your relationship is further deepened by an understanding of each other's values
	You can find being connected and open easier... and get that "feeling" back again
	You will understand different tendencies of your partner and use it for positive gain

Why You Mustn't Get Any Other Dating Or "Seduction" Guide Until You Read This...

You know that there are many 'players' in the market. That there are many so-called 'seduction experts'. I think it's a fun game and really interesting to see how people create opportunities and gather "pick-up lines".

If you are looking for informal relationships, or one-night stands, then this is definitely not for you. But if that's you, chances are you probably don't have very much confidence in the ability for someone else to develop a life-long relationship with you. That's precisely why seduction courses are like a drug. You get more and more addicted to the techniques, that when it's time for you to be your genuine self, facing a situation in a relationship, you'll need strategies and time-tested approaches to really deepen your relationship so you can find one relationship far more fulfilling than any other relationship you've ever got!

Don't take my word for it alone: I know you like to hear what the others have said about The 69 Love Notes. Because that's what I do too! More so than you, in fact.

An author can only "brag" and "boast" so much on her own book. But the others won't, not these people:

“A loving & nurturing relationship is one of the most important aspects of our lives and yet many people lack the knowledge and skills to make their love last. In this highly entertaining and information rich book, Kloudiia will show you the secrets of how to find, keep and nurture the great relationships that you deserve to have.”

Adam Khoo
Chief Executive Officer & Best-Selling Author
Adam Khoo Learning Technologies Group

“How much is a happy, sexy and fulfilling relationship worth to you? Sometimes all you need to jazz up your love life is a good tip, and Kloudiia has not just 1, or 19, or even 37, but 69 easy-to-read tips to put the juice back into your relationships! Pick up these immediately usable gems and watch your lover pay you back a hundred-fold.”

Alvin Soon

Founder, LifeCoachesBlog.com

“An honest and truthful insight on dealing with one of life's biggest enigmas. Kloudiia lights the way with real life examples and stories that makes it easy for any person, in or out of love to grasp the most essential points in moving forward and improving in their relationship. Expect to be delighted and chuckle when you find yourself within the pages, and glad you're in the dark no longer.”

Ryan Chua
Founder of BMW-SG, Singapore BMW Community

“Kloudiia was one of our first of many graduates from Singapore to receive a Certification in Matchmaking from the Matchmaking Institute in New York City. She understood completely that matchmaking is much more than finding someone the best possible match. It is not only about connecting two individuals but asserting that choosing their compatibility wisely will ensure a long lasting and fruitful relationship. That is why Kloudiia's 69 love secrets are essentials: it is a "how to guide" for couples to achieve a long and loving relationship. Kloudiia's book will be enlightening and revigorating to all readers. You will feel Kloudiia's positive energy and state of mind and will appreciate how the quest for love can simply become the quest for happiness.”

Jerome Chasques,
Co-founder of the Matchmaking Institute, USA

“I don't often read dating books for me, but I made an exception for this one… as this lady knows what she's talking about. It's not that she tells the reader (men) exactly what to do, but she tells them what women really want and it's not that hard to achieve.

As you can see, there is a lot of stuff going on in this book. It's tops, as far as I am concerned, and really does let men in on the secrets that go on inside a woman's head. And isn't that what most guys want to really know? What's going on inside those heads of ours?

Apart from that, this book is very well written and descriptive. In some cases, I would say it's hilarious. The girl certainly doesn't hold any punches. It's about reality, not sugar-coating, which seems to be the reality for "some" men.

The book isn't about being a perfect guy and finding a perfect girl. It's about being the best guy, e.g. a man, for the woman you want. This author really knows what's she's talking about.

I have recommended this book to my male friends, especially the ones who are always telling me they have a hard time hooking up.”

Kelvin Hui
Founder and Chief Architect of Ambatch.com

Hong Kong

Who Is This Book For?

You've heard me, and the rest. Now, listen to what your heart tells you as you read on...

If you are reading this now, it only means you have had enough of those frustrations of wanting to understand what your partner thinks and truly wants, feeling despair and losing hope of finding and meeting "the one" or not believing in love anymore due to your failed relationship.

Or you could be undergoing a separation or have divorced, and want to give yourself another chance. You want to know what actually went wrong, and what can you do about those mistakes you and/or your ex-partner have made so that you have all the knowledge and skills you need to handle the new relationship with the next special someone who comes along.

Get This Book If You:

	Have had enough of the frustrations of relationships
	Feel like you are in despair and don't find your relationships enriching enough
	Are undergoing a separation or divorce and need a fresh perspective on things
	Are looking for that special someone and treat that person right
	Failed in many relationships before
	Know of anyone going through the above and want them to gain some footing in life

Take action now to kick start your love life again. Bring the sizzle and put the sparkle back in your eyes!

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To your love and dating success

~ Your Dating Specialist and Love Coach

p.s. Don't stumble around in the dark anymore! If you've been having headaches with relationships, then this is probably the best way to start. You need a good education to get a job, so why apply the same philosophy to your life and relationship?

p.p.s. If you feel that you've been totally jaded by the relationship experience, you really need to seek out new ways to view it in this book - or else your fate might just become a self-fulfilling prophecy! Eliminate your negative thoughts and grab a copy of this book - it might just save you from committing relationship suicide!

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