“Learn How To
Using 69 Secrets That
Create A Loving And Lasting Relationship You
Have Always Dreamed Of”
Asian Secrets Reveal Why Perceptual Differences Can Make
Or Break Your Relationship
Dear Love Seekers and Friend
For the longest time,
people have taught "seduction" or "quick and easy" ways
to get into a relationship. Well, I'm laughing myself
OF COURSE it's easy to get
into a relationship. But wait until you hear all the
cries of agony that I receive ALMOST EVERY DAY:
Here's what some people
have asked me as a love coach and dating specialist.
"...he expects me to
change for him... what do I do?"
"... she obviously loves
me but she's been hurt before... how do I convince her?"
"... we've been together,
now he takes me for granted!"
"She left me and I want
her back... but I don't want to be clingy!"
"I like her but she
doesn't seem to respond to me..."
"...he's just so
possessive, I need my space but I don't want him to
think I hate him"
"... I'm dating a younger
man, and I just don't know how to handle it"
"I'm on my first date...
and I'm a nervous wreck!"
For many of you, these
questions will be very familiar. You probably have asked
these questions before. You probably haven't found the
right answers to them, because you never thought that an
education in relationships would be necessary.
You know very well that a
failure to learn about how relationships work will
increase chances of breakup, divorce or argument in your
relationship. You might end up feeling stressed, hurt
and then completely demoralized.
But the truth is... nobody
really wants to be alone. Can you see yourself:
moping at home, in
front of the TV with nobody to spend your days with?
always keeping things
to yourself and finding out that you're divorced
from intimate and loving contact with your soul
not having the courage
to develop a relationship that could be the happiest
in your life?
relationships and 'one-night-stands' that can never
really fill that space that has been left empty for
being accused of being
insensitive, possessive or disinterested by your
“We never grew up being educated in dating
and relationships… and perhaps we ought to
get certified in relationships. This book
lends a holistic view of love and
relationships, not a lop-sided approach to
dating alone. Kloudiia writes sincerely and
celebrates the reality of human
relationships, and how the often obscure and
mistakenly untouchable concept of
“everlasting love” is really a series of
skills and behaviors. They are learnable,
and I’d encourage anyone who wants the upper
hand in relationships skills to learn from
someone who not only writes about them in a
down-to-earth fashion, but also the same
person who practices what she preaches!”
Licensed NLP Trainer And Business Coach,
It's Not Me, Kloudiia!
For heaven's sake, stop
passing the buck! Everyone likes to blame someone else
for things gone wrong, or problems that have arisen.
Common characteristics that I've seen in relationships
have become too obvious for me, and I wanted to break
the mould by creating a reference guide that everyone in
a relationship can benefit from.
Three Biggest Myths About Relationships... And The
Special Ingredient That Turns Them On Their Heads
A lot of people who start
out in relationships do not even know the fundamentals
in relationship building. So you thought it was meet,
date, kiss, get married and happily ever after? Think
Myth #1 - Once We're In
The Relationship, It's A Done Deal!
I beg your pardon? It may
be all fairytale land for you, but the relationship you
are in depends strictly on how you treat it. There are
breakups and divorces every single day. Unfortunately,
people who are in a relationship hardly think about the
future. They are in the moment, and that creates too
much comfort in the feeling rather than in the
process. You see, most failed relationships end up
bad because couples don't know how to communicate with
each other, get distanced, and complain that the
"feeling" isn't there anymore. I'm sorry - but if you
want a relationship based purely on "feeling" alone, you
are going to end up with a very, very sorry series of
Myth #2 - Feelings
is another way to take yourself to the next level of
poor relationships, but I'll save that for another day!
Feelings change constantly. They are affected by highs
and lows. Heck, even a caffeine infusion could cause a
high. Is your relationship IQ so unrefined that you are
going to allow the love of your life to be compared with
a cup of coffee??
Feelings change, but
basic, fundamental principles of friendship and intimacy
do not. All it takes is for you to be open about what
you need to do and how you need to do it. The rest of it
is about making sure that your emotions are
communicated, and that you are level-headed enough to be
able to make the interaction with your loved one good
enough such that you both grow deeper in love than
Myth #3 - I'll Never
Take My Partner For Granted!
Once again, the myth
created from the fairytales like Cinderella and Snow
White. You never see what actually happens when the
Prince rides out with them into the sunset. Why? Because
it's a fairly tale! It's not reality!
Taking each other for
granted happens - and sometimes when you least expect
it. But, you need to know how to get back on track. If
you're missing the fine methods of communicating with
your partner, you're not growing. Sometimes, you may
have discovered that what you say is not heard. Or, you
might realize that what you do is not appreciated. Why?
Really Know What "Love" Means?
“If you want to understand the opposite sex,
improve the relationship you are in and
create a happier and fulfilling life with
your mate, Kloudiia offers valuable insight
into overcoming common relationship problems
while building a deep and committed
relationship. She gives the reader entrée
into the private world of working with
couple’s common concerns, ups and downs,
misunderstanding in communication and their
hopes and dreams while providing her 69
little secrets to working their way to a
healthier relationship. You can not only
save your relationship with this valuable
information but you can avoid the typical
danger spots before they arise creating a
long lasting deep love and even rekindle a
wonderful romance. I think Kloudiia offers
a fresh and optimistic perspective about
love and relationships that should not be
Lisa Clampitt, CSW,
Co-founder of the Matchmaking Institute, USA
What do you do if your
partner's mind is hidden from you? Well, most of us will
either ignore it, or assume what we want to assume.
The truth is that the approach to communication is
extremely important, and you should learn what to
With These Problems Too?
Get frustrated to
understand your partner?
End up in arguments or
disagreements that you have no idea why they got
started in the first place?
Yearn for a way to have a
blossoming relationship without the fear of losing
your loved one’s affections?
Feel defeated and disappointed that you are
always attracting the wrong person, or not
attracting anyone because you are still
clueless on what type of person you are
Long to discover if
"everlasting love" truly exists?
Start losing hope as you
still can't figure out why your past relationships
couldn't get past the honeymoon period?
The fact that you're here
also means one thing - that you have a wish that's
Tell Me How
I Can Have A Satisfying And Long-Term Relationship!
A happy, loving, fulfilling
and lasting relationship is what you have desired for a
very long time, am I right to say that? I know I am.
Because this is also what I have wanted in my life, ever
since I started to know what is this enigmatic thing
Let The 69 Love Notes
demystify this for you. Or rather, show you what is the
way to your partner's heart, and stay there for as long
as you like.
These Questions Crossed Your Mind Before?
If you are a gal:
why did he make those
decisions without me?
didn't he realize the
earrings I just got?
why doesn't he want me
around his friends?
why doesn't he listen
to my feelings?
why is he always quiet
when something goes wrong?
why does he lose his
can't he tell that I'm
why does he work so hard and not
care about me?
If you are a guy:
why does she think that things
are wrong when it seems fine to me?
why does she always
want to "talk"?
why can't she see that
my work is important and has nothing to do with our
why does she keep
complaining about the same thing over and over?
why must she pick on my
why can't she tell that I need
to be alone?
why is she always
feeling as if I don't love her when I actually do?
If you've had these
questions and want to create the changes you need to the
relationship you have, then get yourself a starting
education in relationships.
Introducing The 69
In “The 69 Love Notes -
Secrets To A Loving And Lasting Relationship” I show
you interesting insights from real life day to day
events that happen in couples’ lives. Putting them
across in a unique mix of East and West - that to give you new
perspectives and approaches to get your relationship
It's a first with such Asian flavor
- you don't get this anywhere else!
As a Licensed Neuro-Linguistic
Programming (NLP) Practitioner, I tap on my coaching
experience as I expound on those frustrating problems
that couples face and give realistic and practical
suggestions to not only overcome those challenges, but
also to get more connected with each other.
Wonder why it is that
successful couples practice these secrets? You too,
could be enjoying the most romantic, long-lasting
relationship – by reading the secrets inside this book
that can show you:
SECRET # 7: The one communication secret
that all relationship gurus never tell you
SECRET #12: The missing secret that has held
together relationship for decades
SECRET #22: The simplest approach that has
turned distance into intimacy
SECRET #51: Your psychological weapon
against waning feelings
SECRET #63: The poison of relationships that
has been the cause of millions of arguments
– and knowing this could stop it forever
... And much, much more!
Truthfully, after reading
this book, you'll get to a stage where:
why your relationships have not
worked out - and what to do with it
||You can find
areas for improvement and jointly
succeed in your relationship together
||You can understand
how your partner feels and respond
||Your relationship is
further deepened by an understanding of
each other's values
||You can find
being connected and open easier... and
get that "feeling" back again
||You will understand
different tendencies of your partner
and use it for positive gain
Why You Mustn't Get
Any Other Dating Or "Seduction" Guide Until You Read
You know that there are
many 'players' in the market. That there are many
so-called 'seduction experts'. I think it's a fun game
and really interesting to see how people create
opportunities and gather "pick-up lines".
If you are looking for
informal relationships, or one-night stands, then this
is definitely not for you. But if that's you, chances
are you probably don't have very much confidence in the
ability for someone else to develop a life-long
relationship with you. That's precisely why seduction
courses are like a drug. You get more and more addicted
to the techniques, that when it's time for you to be
your genuine self, facing a situation in a relationship,
you'll need strategies and time-tested approaches to
really deepen your relationship so you can find one
relationship far more fulfilling than any other
relationship you've ever got!
Don't take my word for it
alone: I know you like to hear what
the others have said about The 69 Love Notes. Because
that's what I do too! More so than you, in fact.
An author can only "brag" and
"boast" so much on her own book. But the others won't,
not these people:
“A loving &
nurturing relationship is one of the most
important aspects of our lives and yet many
people lack the knowledge and skills to make
their love last. In this highly entertaining
and information rich book, Kloudiia will
show you the secrets of how to find, keep
and nurture the great relationships that you
deserve to have.”
Chief Executive Officer & Best-Selling
Adam Khoo Learning Technologies Group
“How much is a happy, sexy and fulfilling
relationship worth to you? Sometimes all you
need to jazz up your love life is a good
tip, and Kloudiia has not just 1, or 19, or
even 37, but 69 easy-to-read tips to put the
juice back into your relationships! Pick up
these immediately usable gems and watch your
lover pay you back a hundred-fold.”
and truthful insight on dealing with one of
biggest enigmas. Kloudiia lights the way
with real life examples
and stories that makes it easy for any
person, in or out of love to
grasp the most essential points in moving
forward and improving in
their relationship. Expect to be delighted
and chuckle when you
find yourself within the pages, and glad
you're in the dark no longer.”
Founder of BMW-SG, Singapore BMW Community
“Kloudiia was one of our
first of many graduates from
Singapore to receive a
Certification in Matchmaking
from the Matchmaking Institute
in New York City. She
understood completely that
matchmaking is much more than
finding someone the best
possible match. It is not only
about connecting two individuals
that choosing their
compatibility wisely will ensure
a long lasting and fruitful
relationship. That is why
Kloudiia's 69 love secrets are
essentials: it is a "how to
guide" for couples to achieve a
long and loving relationship.
Kloudiia's book will be
enlightening and revigorating to
all readers. You will feel
Kloudiia's positive energy and
state of mind and will
appreciate how the quest for
love can simply become the quest
Co-founder of the Matchmaking Institute, USA
“I don't often read dating books for me, but
I made an exception for this one… as this
lady knows what she's talking about. It's
not that she tells the reader (men) exactly
what to do, but she tells them what women
really want and it's not that hard to
As you can see, there is a lot of stuff
going on in this book. It's tops, as far as
I am concerned, and really does let men in
on the secrets that go on inside a woman's
head. And isn't that what most guys want to
really know? What's going on inside those
heads of ours?
Apart from that, this book is very well
written and descriptive. In some cases, I
would say it's hilarious. The girl certainly
doesn't hold any punches. It's about
reality, not sugar-coating, which seems to
be the reality for "some" men.
The book isn't about being a perfect guy and
finding a perfect girl. It's about being the
best guy, e.g. a man, for the woman you
want. This author really knows what's she's
I have recommended this book to my male
friends, especially the ones who are always
telling me they have a hard time hooking
Founder and Chief Architect of Ambatch.com
Who Is This Book For?
You've heard me, and the rest.
Now, listen to what your heart tells you as you read
If you are reading this now,
it only means you have had enough of those frustrations
of wanting to understand what your partner thinks and
truly wants, feeling despair and losing hope of finding
and meeting "the one" or not believing in love
anymore due to your failed relationship.
Or you could be undergoing a
separation or have divorced, and want to give yourself
another chance. You want to know what actually went
wrong, and what can you do about those mistakes you
and/or your ex-partner have made so that you have all
the knowledge and skills you need to handle the new
relationship with the next special someone who comes
Get This Book If
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To your love and dating success
~ Your Dating Specialist and Love Coach
p.s. Don't stumble around in the
dark anymore! If you've been having headaches with
relationships, then this is probably the best way to
start. You need a good education to get a job, so why
apply the same philosophy to your life and relationship?
p.p.s. If you feel that you've been
totally jaded by the relationship experience, you really
need to seek out new ways to view it in this book - or
else your fate might just become a self-fulfilling
prophecy! Eliminate your negative thoughts and grab a
copy of this book - it might just save you from
committing relationship suicide!
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